do not occupy yourself with worldy desires such as following the daily trends of fashion,
watching Bollywood movies,
singing and dancing to tunes which contain statements that are forbidden in Islam,
do not freely mix yourself amongst men (Muslim/non-Muslim),
do not leave your homes dressed to impress the evil within society,
do not pose with high heels,
do not display yourself openly while you are covered,
do not draw attention by actting foolishly in the streets,
protect yourself from the evil within you,
the cursed Shaytaan, and the evil that you drag with you.
Wake up! and realize you are not promised tomorrow.
Repent to your Lord, the Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
Ask for guidance, patience, and strength.
May Allah, the Most High, protect us and guide us so that our ultimate goal in this life is to obtain His Pleasure ;
"Know they not that whoever opposes and shows hostility to Allaah and His Messenger, certainly for him will be the fire of Hell to abide therein? That is extreme disgrace". (9:63)
Most of the sinners amongst the monotheists who enter Hell will be women, as is reported in as-Saheehayn, via Ibn 'Abbaas: in the khutbah given during a solar eclipse, the Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"I saw Hell and I saw that most of its inhabitants were women".
Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri reports:
The Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"O women give in charity, for I have seen that you form the majority of the people of Hell."
They asked, "Why is that so, O Messenger of Allaah (saw)?"
He said, "Because you curse too much and are ungrateful for good treatment".
(al-Bukhaari and Muslim)
Usaamah ibn Zayd reported that the Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said:
"I stood at the gate of Hell, and saw that most of those who entered were women".
(al-Bukhaari and Muslim)
Muslim reports from 'Imraan ibn Husayn (ra) that the Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"Few of the inhabitants of Paradise are women".
This does not contradict the fact that every man in Paradise will have more than one wife. What is referred to by the women who will be the majority of the inhabitants of Hell is women who are descendants of Aadam: the inhabitants of Paradise will have many wives from among al-Hoor al-'Iyn.
"Women will be few among the inhabitants of Paradise because in most cases they prefer the immediate pleasures of this life, as they are less wise and unable to keep the Hereafter in mind. They are too weak to strive and prepare themselves for it, and are more inclined towards this world. In spite of all this, they are the strongest factor in this world that distracts men from the Hereafter, because men are inclined to desire them and they are not concerned with the Hereafter. They are quick to follow those who call them to deviate from Islaam, and reluctant to follow those pious people who cal them to the Hereafter, and righteous deeds". (al-Qurtubee, at-Tadhkirah, 1/369)
In spite of all this, there are many righteous women among them, who stay within the limits set by Allaah (swt), adhere to His laws, and obey Allaah (swt) and His Messenger. Many of these women will enter Paradise, and many of them excel over men in their faith and righteous deeds.
My dear sisters in Islaam, prove yourself wrong and be amongst the righteous women of Islaam. Dedicate yourself to obey the commands of your Lord, and His Messenger (sallahuàlayhi wa sallam) and realize that there is NO pleasure in other than which pleases your Creator.
Fear Your Lord!
Give charity and repent before its too Late!
O my dear sisters in Islam
Wear ur hijab - preserve ur modesty - say NO to envy and backbiting!
Be a practicing and exemplary muslimah for u are the PEAR OF ISLAM!!
May Allah bless u all..